ADVICE PLEASE!!! I'm 33, live in the US. I started studying Islamic culture and Urdu.this is how I met my soon to be husband. He's 27 Pakistani. I've been reading all I can get my hands on.nothing takes the place of life experience.need advice on just about everything.meeting future IL's.most of his family knows.except parents,but says will be no problem.i can't wait to get there never been outside the US.I have a few months before going so thankfully I have time to prepare!!!